BACK IN COMMAND™
You’re brilliant at what you do. So why does it still feel like you’re winging it at life?
A 12-week group coaching experience for ambitious, multi-passionate women — creatives, entrepreneurs, executives, and leaders — who are tired of second-guessing themselves and ready to lead their lives with clarity, courage, and intention.
You're ambitious, you’re successful, and your career looks wildly impressive from the outside looking in.
BONUS: You’ve earned a sparkly gold star for living the life you always thought you wanted…
So why does something still feel off?
Maybe you’ve been running on the hedonistic treadmill for years — without slowing down long enough to tie your shoe, drink some water, or even ask, “Why the hell am I on this thing in the first place?”
Maybe you’re always. so. damn. hard. on yourself. And the crew of critical voices in your head won’t shut up.
Maybe your friends tell you you’re a total badass, but you never believe the hype. You worry you’re not as good as they think and you’re going to get found out.
Maybe you’re tired of earning stack upon stack of gold stars because constantly striving to be a “good student” no longer energizes you.
And maybe, even with all your success, you still find yourself:
Questioning whether you’re on the right path.
Saying yes to opportunities that don’t actually align with what you want.
Comparing your behind-the-scenes to everyone else’s highlight reel.
Feeling like you should have more clarity by now about what you’re building and why.
Tired of making decisions based on what you think you “should” do instead of what you actually want.
Maybe you’ve even started to wonder:
Is this the life I’m supposed to be living?
Or is there something else out there waiting for me?
“For me to be feeling this ‘different’ in twelve weeks …. is WILD!
I’ve set real boundaries with clients, applied for creative opportunities I’d been avoiding, and — most importantly — I’m having more fun. I feel like I’m choosing my life.”
- Lauren Litt, CEO Lil Shameless Plug
Here’s the truth: You don’t need to work harder. You don’t need another productivity hack or business strategy. You don’t need to “find your purpose”. You need to get clear on what you want NOW and how you operate best – and start making decisions from that place.
That’s what self-leadership really is.
Not just managing your time better, but knowing yourself well enough to navigate choices with confidence, set boundaries without guilt, and go after what you want without apology.
You can choose to write your wildest dreams and desires in BIG, bold letters at the top of your to-do list.
You can choose yourself. FULL STOP.
You can choose to be
BACK IN COMMAND™
And you can choose it today. I can help.
What exactly is
BACK IN COMMAND™?
BACK IN COMMAND™ is not about changing who you are — It's about owning every facet of your identity.
Together, we’ll walk through six phases designed to help you get clear about what’s most important to you now, break old habits that are no longer serving you, build momentum, and exercise your courage - which will inevitably lead to more confidence in everything that you do.
The first part of BACK IN COMMAND™ is the curriculum. These are the practical tools and strategies that for some bizarre reason, no one teaches us in school as kids. Here’s what it looks like:
Phase 1: CLARIFY YOUR VISION
Get honest about what you actually want — not the watered-down version, not the “shoulds.” The real, high-octane version that feels alive.
Phase 2: SPOT THE SABOTEURS
Name the patterns and stories that keep you stuck — perfectionism, people-pleasing, impostor chatter — and learn to interrupt them.
Phase 3: RECONNECT WITH YOUR GUT INSTINCTS
Rebuild trust with your inner wisdom. Your gut knows more than you give it credit for — we’ll strengthen that muscle.
Phase 4: LEAD WITH YOUR VALUES
Use your values as a decision filter so you can stop reacting out of fear and start choosing with intention.
Phase 5: SET BOUNDARIES WITHOUT GUILT
Say no without apology, stop over-explaining, and protect your time and energy for what really matters.
Phase 6: TAKE MESSY ACTION
Stop waiting until it’s perfect. Learn to move forward with clarity and courage — even when you don’t have all the answers.
Who is perfect for BACK IN COMMAND™?
Back in Command™ is for the woman who’s whip-smart, driven, and ready to make a bigger impact — without losing herself in the process.
Maybe you’ve got big ideas and creative sparks, but you keep talking yourself out of them. You tell yourself it’s not the right time, not the right lane, not for you — even though deep down, you know you’re holding yourself back.
Or maybe you’ve already accomplished more than you ever imagined, but this chapter feels complete. You can feel that something new is calling — you just don’t know what it is yet. You’re caught between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming, and you’re craving clarity.
Or maybe you’re the one everyone counts on — the powerhouse who gets it all done. You can handle anything, so you do everything. But that’s left your own dreams collecting dust at the bottom of the list. That frustration you feel? It’s your sign that it’s time to put your work, your joy, your fulfillment back at the center.
Maybe you’re craving more meaning. Maybe you’re tired of questioning your every move. Or maybe you’re just done carrying everyone else’s expectations while your own dreams sit on the back burner.
Back in Command™ is for the woman who’s ready to stop overthinking and start leading her life with intention — not on autopilot, not for approval, but for herself.
What you can expect inside this coaching experience…
✓ Curriculum: SIX 90-Minute LIVE workshops
Practical tools & frameworks you’ll actually use.
Then you’ll have a week to integrate - to try new things, explore the tools and the exercises that you’ve learned, and notice what comes up for you.
✓ Coaching: SIX 90 minute HOT SEAT SESSIONS
It’s great to learn new tools — but it’s putting them into action that actually moves the needle. This is where patterns emerge and change sticks. Former participants are always blown away by how much they learn from simply watching each other get coached.
✓ COMMUNITY: ROUND TABLE CONVERSATIONs
A private Slack space for connection and reflection. And you’ll have direct access to me for questions, spot coaching and accountability. Roundtable discussions deepen connection and normalize the process—you’re not alone.
✓ BESPOKE SUPPORT
This program has a clear arc, but no two experiences are identical — we meet you where you are and tailor your focus.
DID YOU KNOW:
When you do something in a group, you increase the likelihood that you’ll succeed by 80%. Book clubs. Gym classes. Health programs. They create accountability and community and structure. So if you say you’re going to do something and you try to do it alone, the likelihood that you’ll ACTUALLY do it is 10%.
But if you do it in a group, you increase the likelihood that you’ll actually do it to 90%.
I was on my way up the ladder in the entertainment industry…
and I walked away.
I worked as an executive on award-winning projects like GREASE LIVE!, Avenue Q, and The New Adventures of Old Christine. I was living the dream I'd had since childhood…but I was miserable.
I spent years chasing gold stars, feeling empty and unfulfilled, trying to make myself fit into the career I'd imagined, until I finally realized that I had been abandoning who I was for what I thought I should achieve. I’d been following a playbook that told me success meant sacrificing myself.
Life is too short to stay stuck playing by rules that were never designed for you to thrive. I've shown hundreds of women how to rewrite those rules. I can show you too.
MORE ABOUT MICHELLE
This experience was “exactly what I needed at this time in my life.”
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Access incredible tools...
“I gained so much awareness and learned that a thought doesn’t have to rule you. I also got incredible tools for dealing with life: setting goals, dreaming bigger, and figuring out my values.”
- E.B., Marketing Associate
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Connect with new friends like Danielle...
“I love the community! It’s somehow comforting to know that others are also on their journey and struggling in different areas. We all benefit from hearing how you coach the others in the group.”
- Danielle Aventejado
Artist
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Set big goals and continue to grow like Ghia...
“Being a part of this group has really helped me through the past few months that – without a doubt – have been the hardest of my life. I’m so grateful for the tools you have opened me up to. I want to continue to grow, set big goals and work hard to achieve them.”
- Ghia Godfree
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Determine exactly what you want & build the confidence to go after it…
“Before I joined BACK IN COMMAND, I was feeling lost, alone and disconnected with a lot of anxiety and stress. Now I feel so much more confident. I’m setting boundaries with people. And I started a new job that feels aligned with my values and what I want next for my life.”
-A.C.
MEET A FEW OF MY CLIENTS…
Do I walk my talk?
Find out for yourself…
It’s time to stop playing small so you can make those around you more comfortable…
Are you ready to own your values, voice, and viewpoints?
I mean… You’re still here.
I’d say the answer is a BIG, FAT, FREAKING YES!
FAQ
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A: Every other week you’ll have 90 minutes of live hot-seat coaching. I’m active in Slack for questions and spot coaching. Optional 1:1 sessions are available at a participant rate.
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A: All sessions are recorded and posted the same day with any materials.
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A: The whole point of this program is about learning to trust yourself and committing to the changes you want to make. I can’t tell you the number of coaching clients who start to see changes in their lives from the moment they say “yes” to themselves. So…make it a hell yes or a hell no, my friend. There are no refunds. If you’re in, you’re in. Trust you’re going to get exactly what you need from the experience.
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Therapy explores the past. Coaching focuses on where you are and where you’re going. It feels therapeutic, but it’s action-oriented and future-focused.
Coaching and therapy support each other and are often done simultaneously.
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Because culture shapes behavior. We’ll examine patterns we’ve absorbed (people-pleasing, over-indexing on approval) and practice leading as whole humans—blending clarity, compassion, and command.